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[Helga]

You are responsible for you. Who guards the guards? It takes two to tango. Long absent, soon forgotten. He that knows does not speak, He that speaks does not know.
Life's a bitch and then you marry one You never know what you've got till it's gone. Money for old rope.
Look on the sunny side of life. Think before you speak. It's a blessing in disguise. If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right
What goes up must come down. It's the early bird that gets the worm. You can't free a fish from water. You are responsible for you. Followup: Satisfaction brought it back, that's why the cat has nine lives Doctors make the worst patients.
Alternate: The last chance Purely bluster and no substance. You need to bait the hook to catch the fish. Salvage Something From Every Setback. - R Sankaranarayanan
Give the Devil his due. Never eat the yellow snow. A Frank Zappa song. Cut your coat according to your cloth. Give and take is fair play. Two wrongs don't make a right, but three lefts do.